Are you experiencing a difficult life change and need help to heal your spirit? Sharing stories, distant energy channeling of Reiki, crystal energy grid work are a few ways to start. I am also available to offer supportive spiritual guidance and counsel. Many circumstances, whether in our control or not, cause major turning points in our lives. Sharing stories with an unconditional listener is a helpful way to discover what we feel or want at some point. Healing will begin when the decision is made to start looking within to find personal strength. 

All choices contribute to personal growth. I believe there is a reason for everything in the grand scheme called life. During times of intense challenges the messages are difficult to see. Our spirit is what keeps us moving forward. During stressful times there may be a feeling that a part of us is missing. We move through the day automatically. Experiencing stress overload is like looking but not seeing and listening but not hearing.
 Awareness is the key. Denial keeps us from moving forward in our lives. Inner strength begins to grow when a decision is made to let go of the emotional turmoil and pain. It is about attitude, choices, decisions and feelings.

Right or wrong our choices carry consequences we learn to accept and move forward from. Personally, I have found that finally deciding is the most difficult part of making a decision. It is making a commitment to personal beliefs and 'walking our talk'. It is taking the first step to being more in control of our own needs, whatever we choose that first step to be.

Conditioning of life, personal losses, control of abuse and societal expectations are some of our molding influences. The days are filled with doing what is expected. We fear or accept the judgments placed on us from family, friends or society in general. It is easy to forget who we are or what we want. It is the way we respond when asked the question: Why? 

We all have two sides, but the shadow side is kept hidden most of the time. It may be our creative expression, anger, negative attitude or secrets we have. The outer personality is what is seen and more acceptable for the roles we fill in our daily responsibilities. It is neccessary to acknowledge and accept both sides of ourselves so that we feel more whole and balanced. It is when they are in conflict that the resulting anxiety causes problems.

Someone said to me long ago, "you cannot please everyone or save the world". There may some be truth to those words. It is possible that by caring, lending encouragement and support, that a difference can be made. Possibly  this meant to let go of those who are not willing to do the work of healing. It is a process, but always worth the effort. 

I am ordained, as well as being a licensed registered nurse with the knowledge of  professional, and many personal experiences of the years. These pages, as well as myself, will be a work in progress. In the computer world, this site may seem simple, but it is the message here that matters. Maybe a quieter, more humble place is a refreshing break. If I help someone find an answer, maybe it will be passed along. It is my way of giving back to the universe for all the strength and courage I have needed.

I welcome all, but this is probably more for women. There is no distinction between race, creed, or status. This place is for those who have experienced the years and for the young (over eighteen) who are finding their way.
 

Be advised that it is not intended here to be instructional for medical diagnosis or drug-alcohol counsel. Contact a facility intended for this.

Here is for sharing, spiritual healing, guidance, support and  your stories. Although this is not specifically directed toward any religion, all beliefs are acknowledged and appreciated. My ordination is to provide spiritual support and encouragement to those who want it. Begin to trust the Powers of the Universe, whatever you choose that to be or not to be. There are no judgements here. Unconditional supportive guidance is available or sharing with those who just want to vent about the 'hum-drum' of daily life. 

                                      
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Is there anyone so wise as to learn by the experience of another 
~Voltaire

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Knowledge opened the door 
Experience was the teacher

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